Archive for January 26th, 2008
January 26th, 2008 -- Posted in Portraits To Art |
Is Your Husband An Alcoholic?…6 Quick Tips To Get Them Sober
Is your Partner an alcoholic? Do they change character when they drink? Are you fed up with their double personality? Are you about to explode? The best thing you can do is stop trying to get them to give up alcohol.
It really doesn’t make any difference whatsoever, nagging on them to give up as all it leads to is making you emotionally stressed out and therefore less able to help that person who is so special to you. It is impossible to verbally over power an alcoholic as you need a delicate control over the situation. With this in mind you can reach inside an alcoholic and have some effect on their life.
You must always bear in mind that you are helping the person that you married and loved and not the alcoholic. Ignore them when they have got a drink inside them and they are looking for an argument and ignore any form of emotional nonsense. Make sure it sinks into them the fact that you will not be provoked when they are drunk and stick to your guns.
If they insist on provoking, you should just leave the situation by going into another room, go and visit somebody you know, go out for a long stroll or just listen to your MP3. You need to maintain a strong mind as you are the one who has the power to stop them drinking by making them see for themselves that they really do have a problem.
It is a very sad fact that the person on the receiving end is as mentally and emotionally ill as the alcoholic himself. This is why the innocent party must set their own limits for what they are going to take from their partner while they are drunk.
Whatever you do, dont allow them to see that their behavior is affecting you as their whole ploy is to irritate you, so make sure you don’t give them that satisfaction. When they do get into a state turn your back on them and try and see right through them to the person you used to know and love.
Now comes a long list of DON’TS so you don’t encourage their behavior. Don’t assist them to bed. Don’t allow them to drive while under the influence. Don’t allow them to argue with you while drunk. Ignore them and Don’t be forced into anything. Don’t supply them with any booze even if they get down onto their hands and knees. Under no circumstances Don’t treat them with understanding and certainly do not pay them any extra attention.
When they are sober you need to do the exact opposite(except buying booze), and tell them just how much they mean to you and that you are concerned about their health. Tell them or remind them of the terrible things that you and the rest of the family have to support while they are drunk as they really do need reminding.
All these points will make life living with an alcoholic just that little bit more easier and it will aid the burden of their abuses towards you. Sadly in a way you are not alone and you can discover other peoples experiences at the stopdrinkingadvice.org blog and it will soon come to light that your world can change and your partner too.
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Is Your Husband An Alcoholic?…6 Quick Tips To Get Them Sober / Author: TimMartins
January 26th, 2008 -- Posted in Portraits To Art |
Corbett national park-Indian tigers hunting ground.
Rudyard Kipling once described this land as primal jungle and Jim Corbett loved to travel the length and breadth of this land fearlessly. This is Corbett National Park (CNP), a splendid place supporting a vast reservoir of wildlife. This park has the honour of first national park of the country. It was so declared in 1936 as Hailey National Park & later renamed in the honour of legendary hunter-turned animal lover Jim Corbett.It is situated in the foothills of western Himalayas in the districts of Nainital and Pauri Garhwal in the newly carved out state of Uttaranchal and this wildlife heaven is reserved for adventure loving and tough people.
We arrived at Rampur,about 7-8 hours away from National capital Delhi, in the afternoon full of anticipations. The permit to visit and stay in CNP are issued here.We got our reservations for Dhikala rest house which is located centrally and is infact houses the forests department. Near the entry point, we took our lunch and entered the CNP through Amdanda gate. Our rest house at Dhikala was approximately 30 kms from the gate along a narrow metalled road. The landscape of the park was mesmerising and this place exuded the charm of ancient primitive era. We saw a few vehicles parked on the kucha road near the main road. I jumped with excitement of seeing something wild and saw a group of elephants comfortably munching on grass of size equal to their heights.This was my first encounter with the Indian giants.They seemed indifferent to our presence. This apparent callousness of elephants about homo sapiens does not augur well for these giants as this made poacher’s work very easy. By an estimate, their population is 300 in the park area.
We removed ahead and saw a signboard about Indian gharial and saw a few gharials taking sun-bath on the banks of river Ramganga. Ramganga and its streams vivisect the land into numerous ridge and ravines.This landscape is perfect habitat for the growth and survival of tiger, leopard, bear et al. We were looking for the big cat “tiger”. About 90 (as per 1984 estimate) big cats inhabit this area and are very reserved creatures.Only lucky people can have a glimpse of this magnificent creature.
Next morning, we were ready to see the virtual rawness and beauty of this mysterious land covering an area of 1319sq. kms.We come across a herd of spotted deer, chital, which ran ahead of our jeep.I saw a lone barking deer, jackal, otters running for fish in the waters of Ramganga. Since it was early morning and a light drizzle had just finished, there was freshness, fragrance and coolness in the air and this was the time of hectic activity.Our guide asked to stop the jeep as there was a “call”.We waited in anticipation for half an hour but nothing happened. There are documented instances of tigers killing and eating a mature leopard. On muddy trail, we saw fresh pugmarks of a tiger and scanned the whole area for its presence.Chance and luck plays the role in case of tiger sighting in the wild as tigers here avoid humans unlike Ranthambore where tigers show indifference towards humans.
CNP has immense variety of wild life. About 50 species of mammals viz tiger, leopards, leopard cats, jungle cat, fishing cat, jackal, Indian wild dog – dhole, porcupine, civet, otter, mangoose, barking deer, ghoral etc., 580 birds species viz king vulture, eagles, kingfishers, etc. & 25 species of reptiles including crocodile gharial, crocodile, cobra, krait etc inhabit the park.It sustains a very significant ecosystem and is thus ecologically, socially and environmentally very important.
Near Sarpduli, we come across a herd of female elephants, a lonely seemingly pregnant jackal and vast variety of birds inhabiting bushes. I have not seen such a vast variety of small birds at a single point and has surpassed even Bird’s paradise ‘Bhartpur’ in Rajasthan, in the number of avian species. Very few people are aware of this fact and the entire focus is always on the big creatures like tiger et al. For next two days, we scanned all parts of the park to get a glimpse of tiger and though saw a variety of mammals, reptiles and birds including rare king vulture, big cats remained elusive.It is a privilege to visit this primal jungle and taste its raw beauty. This park remains closed from June 15 to November 15 for general public. A large number of rest houses are available in the area namely Dhikala, Khinnanauli, Sarpduli, etc.
Title:-Corbett national park-Indian tigers hunting ground.
About Author:-Bharat gupta is a nature freak who has travelled the various wildlife areas of India, trekked the Himalayan virgin lakes,passes,etc. This is a tribute to virgin Indian land about which very people are aware. For more information do visit www.adventurersparadise.com
Corbett national park-Indian tigers hunting ground. / Author: bharat gupta
January 26th, 2008 -- Posted in Portraits To Art |
Bad Credit Payday Loans-Meet Your Unexpected Expenses
If you have to pay your medical bills, tax bills or you have any other monetary requirements urgently and you are running short of funds, you should opt for a payday loan. It does not matter if your credit ratings in the market are not so good. The financial organizations in UK are lending money to individuals, for a short-term, without any credit checks. Bad credit payday loans have become popular in UK in last few years. People can apply for this loan at any time of the day.
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Payday loans for bad creditors are becoming popular day by day as they are easy to get. These loans are sanctioned and transferred to the borrower’s bank account within 24 hours. No legal formalities are involved.
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Bad Credit Payday Loans-Meet Your Unexpected Expenses / Author: Johnty Flemming